past, present, future and happiness..

I don't know why ppl write blogs, I don't even understand, why I am writing this :) Yes, m not kidding, सच्ची. May be, here we find our best friend, someone, who can listen to us, without any expectation, and the best part is, whatever you say to this person, this friend won't leave you :), this person will always be there, ofcourse, as long as you have your internet connection and your PC working :), so you can pour out whatever you have in your mind, to this great system (i would rather say, great Support System), and it accepts, with unmatched patience and without any discontent.

When had i started writing this post, i was feeling surrounded by forces of riddles of life, but now, even before i have moved to the actual content, those forces seems to be weakening, this is the power of this cool friend :).

Today when i sit back and think about the days that i lived.. i don't know, whether to be happy or to be sad. Actually, there are a very few on this planet, who can be happy without being sad. And its only these people who actually tame the life, and live it according to their rules. Happiness and sorrow are like, day and night, sun and rain. Happiness always comes to end, and if we don't accept it, the end of the happiness itself becomes a good reason for being sad.

Its all about our choice, you can chose to be sad, by thinking that those days are no more.. wish they lasted for rest of the life, Or you can chose to be happy, by feeling lucky that we got to live those good days, and try living our present in such a way that we grab similar moments from our future.

The problem is, we expect too much from this small life that God has gifted us, yes, its really very small. If you think about the age of our planet or universe, our life is like a molecule of water in the ocean. And this tiny-miny life is too short to be spent in the bitterness of past, there is so much to do, so much to see, so much to listen, so much to be happy for. One of my friend says.. everything happens for good, and its true actually. Only thing is, we need to have patience to realize it.

I heard a short story in a movie... a person drowning in the ocean, a boat comes to him, but he didn't take its help, saying, he will pray and God will help him... and ofcourse, he dies, and meets God and says.. "I prayed so much, but u didn't help me out of that ocean".. God replied.. "U fool, I sent a boat". So, lets be thankful to God for everything we have in life, for our parents, for our friends, even for those who were with us at some point of time, coz they helped you live n njoy some part of your life.

Great, thats really amazing!!! After this writing m feeling free, those forces have disappeared, life seems simple. Anyways, thanks for reading this stupid post :)